don_b
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I noticed something similar myself. When I first started playing with my kids song group a few months ago, we focused on easy songs and little-to-no practice sessions. Not all are musicians and all are very busy, just trying to have some fun with kids once a month. Still, gotta practice sometime because the noobs get nervous performing. No problem, I get that, it’s fun anyhow. We got it to one practice a month. I noticed that since we have such limited practice times, and some of the members are so new to performing with others, that personal decisions to solo ended up tanking everybody else. I remember one practice in particular, I had decided to myself we all had the structure down and it was an ok day to start introducing some solos. Without fail that day, every time I would attempt to jam a little bit, it made at least one other person think that they were screwing up because suddenly I was playing something different than I had been. Just kept happening. People would stop playing, assuming we needed to start over etc. I remember it surprising me because it seemed obvious to me that somebody solos, somebody plays chords, and that’s how a band works a lot of the time. I had forgotten that many members were never in a band and had no idea what’s going on. Communication is important!Good fun for messing around, but be careful not to be "that guy" at an open mic or uke group who insists on playing louder than everyone else. It's not fair on everyone else.
If you get into performing, you start to realise that less is often more. The louder you play, the louder people talk. When I'm doing really well, other people lean in to listen to me playing and go quiet. I would never be able to do that if I had a big PA.
how did I get in this.
Oh, it was the first day I had an amp loud enough for solo to be heard lol.